theghostplant asked: ah okay. i've been using neutral for you and that's what i told isaac/mariska/other portland friends to use for you but if you want me to change that's cool too. everyone in portland is always really chill with people changing names/pronouns to things that suit them so i've gotten in the habit of checking in with people often. idk man. gender.
yeah idek with my pronouns and whatever. My gender shit is more associated with how I portray myself than how people interpret it, which is actually super chill because I don’t tend to get upset about stuff.
This mindset falls apart once gendered adjectives or honorifics show up, though. :/ GO FIGURE
EDIT: WELL THAT GOT PUBLISHED WHOOPS