Sparky Spilt Milk

whhistle asked: ah okay. i've been using neutral for you and that's what i told isaac/mariska/other portland friends to use for you but if you want me to change that's cool too. everyone in portland is always really chill with people changing names/pronouns to things that suit them so i've gotten in the habit of checking in with people often. idk man. gender.

yeah idek with my pronouns and whatever. My gender shit is more associated with how I portray myself than how people interpret it, which is actually super chill because I don’t tend to get upset about stuff.

This mindset falls apart once gendered adjectives or honorifics show up, though. :/ GO FIGURE

EDIT: WELL THAT GOT PUBLISHED WHOOPS

So I think I’m gonna (mostly) abandon this blog

spiltsparks:

because two blogs is TOO MANY and also I gave my future roommates the other one so yeah.

posts may show up once and a while anyway because my brain sorts information in mysterious ways.

Get yo butts over here (xorqthedork.tumblr.com), y’all.

Seems like as good a time as any to reblog this again.

catch-the-raindrops-88:

thecomedyreliefcharacter:

mssecondopinionson:

a friendly tip: if you feel the urge to self harm get an ice cube and hold it in your hand for a while. it relieves the compulsion in a less destructive way. therapists have used this with their patients and i have tried it myself it works pretty well

Okay wow this is now my favourite post on Tumblr. Signal boost into infinity.

this…is quite helpful. passing it along!!

(via boudicathebrave)

Super fun family dinner sans my father, hey, let’s go.

Just ate at a Waffle House at six in the morning.

Quality dining here in Brookville, Ohio.